The Role of A Man..
Whether we like it or not, we are made to be dominant, but yet gentle.
That’s quite an impossible combination, but not unachievable.
I am Vincent, a man, getting married this August 9th, 2008 at least, the wedding day is on that date.
My wife and I have registered with the Marriage Registrar of Malaysia in February 2007 on Valentine’s day.
So putting it simply, I am already technically married.
Well, to tell you the truth, it takes some effort to get used to couplehood as opposed to singlehood.
I used to be a rebellious and headstrong person with no brains… LOL (stands for Laugh Out Loud in Internet jargon).
My perspective change as I got Joanne as my lifelong best friend.
I made mistakes in a lot of ways and often fall short of the role of being a man in our 2 years period of having known each other.
To be man…. the SECRET?
“Stand up, face challenges, and constantly look for solutions and take out the emotions. Support, and love your family.”
Now, that’s the simplistic and humble view from me.
We can go deeper into the Bible (I am a Christian by the way, a very stonge and strong one, if you wanna know, but not necessarily the most holy and best one out there, I am just banging on God’s grace to get me into heaven.. LOL) to find out more about the role of a man.
You see, when Eve sinned by taking the apple in the middle of the Garden of Eden, Adam stood right beside her. He wasn’t somewhere else. And what made Adam took the apple and sin with Eve together?
INACTION!!! Adam didn’t protect Eve or reprimand her. Adam didn’t do nothing!
So guys, learn something here.
Till next time.
Vince, signing off.